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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: TrulyMadlyDeeply on September 14, 2020, 10:53:18 AM



Title: He has made purchases to Yandy
Post by: TrulyMadlyDeeply on September 14, 2020, 10:53:18 AM
Dear God. It hurts.

He received a paper today welcoming him to his online bank account.

I finally hopped online. He's been buying almost 100 bucks of things from yandy on 9/8 and 9/10.

He also has a Mega Pro Global account. Something about data transfer? I don't know.

Looks like a hotel bill. He had that work trip...but should have been work covered and it was just a one night stay, I'm guessing, based on price.



Title: Re: He has made purchases to Yandy
Post by: AskingWhy on September 15, 2020, 05:34:08 PM
TMD, I am so sorry at what this might be implying. 

Last year, I came across a letter from a family law attorney my uBPD H had consulted asking for client feedback. We just had a blowup where I could not keep my cool as my H bullied me, emotionally abused me, broke household items and furniture in a fit of rage.  I countered with some words of my own.  I was fed up.  The pets were terrified and that's why I let my H have it. 

BPDs do and say things because their fragile or absent self-image is threatened.  They act in irrational ways with destructive behaviour.  Please know you can vent here.

 :hug: :hug: