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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: donutwoman on September 19, 2020, 06:48:13 AM



Title: I am sabotaging my relationship
Post by: donutwoman on September 19, 2020, 06:48:13 AM
Hello everyone.

I am sabotaging my relationship  by constantly telling my boyfriend that he doesn't love me, or doesn't care for me (although these might be completely untrue). I am in an LDR so that makes it even harder for me to know what is going on in each other's lives. This relationship is valuable to me, but I keep nitpicking whatever he does although I am aware that it might be a really stupid move. Please tell me if you go through the same and how you deal with it!




Title: Re: I am sabotaging my relationship
Post by: Jay763 on September 21, 2020, 08:49:58 PM
Hi there,

A LDR is hard but...it will work only if both people are secure. Find your security and stop the Nitpicking because you are correct, that breaks a relationship down to nothing. I wish you luck and peace.