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Title: I think my wife has BPD - help Post by: EricS on October 15, 2020, 10:32:27 AM This is my first post.
I have been married for 6 years and it has been a confusing, chaotic and intense relationship. I just finished reading Stop walking on eggshells and I feel I could have written about 70% of the first half of the book in relation to my experiences with my suspected BPD wife. I actually had a sense of peace finally in reading it since I now see that all the problems are not my fault. I’m in a stage of really hurting. I have moved out because my wife is having an affair with another woman and says it’s all my fault. Basically at first in our relationship I could only walk on water. I am not perfect. So when I have made mistakes and admitted them, now I am the enemy and my wife has found people to be with that praise and idolize her. We are meeting with counselors and seem to be heading for divorce which I really don’t want. I still love her and care for her. It’s obviously a long story like all relationships but for now I’ll leave it at that. Eric S |