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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Turtlebeeb83 on October 16, 2020, 09:53:47 AM



Title: Need help with my BPD boyfriend
Post by: Turtlebeeb83 on October 16, 2020, 09:53:47 AM
This is my first post.  I've been trying to educate myself on BPD as much as I can.  I care very much for my boyfriend.  He is a good man but he's struggling so much.  He is currently pushing me away and accusing me of things I haven't done.  I'm not sure how to respond.  He goes back and forth so much it's really painful.  I do not want to give up on him but I'm not sure what to do when he tells me he doesn't want to be with me and he wants me to leave him the #$$%^& alone.  Part of me wants to know if he really does want me gone.  Any help would be greatly appreciated.  Also I'll accept it if he doesn't want me as a girlfriend.  It will hurt like hell, but I just really want to help him.  It hurts my heart that he is in so much pain.  Thanks