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Title: How to cope Post by: ChristmasTree72 on October 22, 2020, 12:26:14 PM 10 yr relationship with a single dad, raised his 2 children. I'm very attached to the youngest one, a girl. Been through many cycles where he devalued me, treated me like he hated me, then came around. He's always been emotionally abusive also with his daughter. He has no family or friends. This last time he went ballistic on his daughter cause her room was messy. Then immediately after decided it was my fault that she's not neat and clean, and that he's forced to mistreat her. In other words, projecting his blame on me. Has cut me off, told me i have hurt his family, that i'm a monster, doesn't let me see them, threatened to call the police. I'm heartbroken and worried about them at the same time.
Title: Re: How to cope Post by: formflier on October 23, 2020, 05:45:51 AM *welcome* That must be frustrating to be blamed for things that aren't your responsibility. How long has it been since he "cut you off"? Has he done this before? The good news if that you have found a group of people that "get it" and I'm positive we can support you and help you understand what is going on in this relationship. Best, FF |