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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: SameSame on October 27, 2020, 06:10:02 PM



Title: What to Do?
Post by: SameSame on October 27, 2020, 06:10:02 PM
Hi All-

About to enter therapy with my girlfriend after having the same argument once again go unresolved.  Willing to endure my partner's issues (no one is perfect) but its exhausting to have to live around them without them being incorporated into the relationship as reality - instead, attempts to address them drives mirroring and projection and more conflict. 

It would be very helpful if some of you could describe the ways you've adapted (yourself and your relationship) which made issues like this tolerable and the relationship successful overall. 

much thanks!
SameSame