Title: meltdowns Post by: carebear59 on October 29, 2020, 01:20:41 PM Single Mom here. Raised 4 daughters myself and my youngest is 27 with I think BPD, she just started therapy although she has been in and out of therapy for years. This problem started when she was 2. I am 61 now and so very familiar with the outbursts/meltdowns. They are getting worse and I am getting angrier when she attacks me physically and emotionally, what can I do? Usually I have the patience of Job but these bouts are getting worse and after 27 years I am tired and depressed dealing with every dang trauma that comes down the pike. Tortured soul here every single day.
Title: Re: meltdowns Post by: formflier on October 30, 2020, 10:00:55 AM *welcome* I'm glad you found us. We "get it". Does your D still live with you? Have you done any therapy to help with the situation? Does your D seem to do better while she is in therapy? What have you done in the past when you have been attacked? I'm concerned when I see "physical" attack. What is that like? I'll check back soon to see your answer and I believe we can help you! Best, FF |