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Title: Ex Wife let me know my dog died and other missing Post by: Nowisthetime1 on November 30, 2020, 08:25:33 PM Hey Guys,
My BPD ex wife texts me out of the blue letting me know my lab / dashund mix is dead. Now he died several weeks ago I was told tonight. She said his ashes were spread in a green area. Not even the decency to let me know earlier. My other dog escaped the house so she said today. I believe she opened the door and sent him on his way. I’m floored at these developments man. I’m shocked at this. Title: Re: Ex Wife let me know my dog died and other missing Post by: Websters Mom on November 30, 2020, 09:25:49 PM I am so incredibly sorry. There are no words. I will pray for the safety of the one and share in the grief of the other. What a cruel thing for her to have done.
Title: Re: Ex Wife let me know my dog died and other missing Post by: Nowisthetime1 on December 01, 2020, 10:12:27 AM Webster’s Mom,
Thanks for the kind words. I really appreciate that. Title: Re: Ex Wife let me know my dog died and other missing Post by: Inside on December 02, 2020, 12:00:05 PM Seems most BPD behavior is both an invite to re engage, and/ or a back-handed slap to get our attention.
My BPD ex got a dog, loved dominating him. Very creepy; she’d stand over him, a leg on either side, as he basically cowered. She liked it, he didn’t.. What he liked was when I’d visit, taking him on the few wild adventures he’d get. I actually think she was jealous. I miss my former dogs, humans often seem undeserving of their unconditional devotion. I hope your dog's passing breaks a tie with her, and that the other dog finds a loving home.. Title: Re: Ex Wife let me know my dog died and other missing Post by: Goosey on December 09, 2020, 06:11:07 PM So sorry.
It is what it is. Don’t give the other the satisfaction of responding to the news. Ugh. It will get better. And as my shrink alway told me. Presume everything I am told is a LIE. I live by that. |