Title: Scared Post by: Benzo princess on December 12, 2020, 04:38:33 AM Just got diagnosed... very scary to have a heavy label hanging over me. But at the same time I feel as though it gives me some sort of identity, even if it is a personality disorder. Got a book for my significant other to further help him understand this disorder but the more and more I read it the more upset I got. It made me feel like this big monster that only causes people to feel hurt... thats the last thing I want to do, it doesn’t make me feel good to yell and say hurtful things then beg for them to come back. It makes me feel pathetic.
Title: Re: Scared Post by: formflier on December 13, 2020, 08:03:02 AM What diagnosis did you receive? What have you and your health care team determined is the best next step? Best, FF Title: Re: Scared Post by: Turkish on December 14, 2020, 09:58:24 PM Hi Benzo princess.
This site is for members learning how to better interact with loved ones with BPD. As such, some discussions may be triggering to you. Please check out this resource: Resources for BPD Sufferers (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/Themes/default/welcome3.html) Even so, you are welcome to stay and receive support if you have family whom you think might have BPD. We do encourage members who have or might have BPD to participate of that is the case. I wish you the best, Turkish |