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Title: BPD girlfriend Post by: Mr S on December 14, 2020, 10:39:52 AM My girlfriend has BPD and I myself have anxiety and PTSD.
I'm trying to understand and support her with all my heart but it's difficult. She doesn't understand my emotions are hurting me too and I can't word it to her in fear I'll trigger her. I have been having serious lows trying to keep her above water. She keeps telling me that she can't be cured and I'm scared she's right. I need advice with what to do right. Because my relationship with her is treading thin ice and it feels like in losing the one person i care most about in this world Title: Re: BPD girlfriend Post by: formflier on December 14, 2020, 11:29:01 AM I have been having serious lows trying to keep her above water. *welcome* I'm curious to know what this looks like... "trying to keep her above water". https://www.bpdfamily.com/content/what-does-it-take-be-relationship What is your first reaction to reading the article above? We can help you sort this out. I'll check back later for your reply. Best, FF Title: Re: BPD girlfriend Post by: once removed on December 16, 2020, 01:23:28 AM you do sound pained. youve come to the right place.
how long have the two of you been together? how long would you say things have been like this? |