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Title: Blame game? Post by: Sean123 on December 25, 2020, 09:24:31 AM I always feel like I getting blamed for everything. I'm absolutely certain I am to blame sometimes, I get frustrated and say things I don't mean sometimes but somehow she always twist it so it appears its my fault, always. Then as soon as I try to make it up to her, she gives me the cold shoulder for hours. Completely resistant to affection.
Title: Re: Blame game? Post by: formflier on December 25, 2020, 06:24:13 PM *welcome* I'm glad you made your first post. You have found a group of people that "get it". How long have you been reading and hanging around before you made your first post? I always feel like I getting blamed for everything. I'm absolutely certain I am to blame sometimes, I get frustrated and say things I don't mean sometimes but somehow she always twist it so it appears its my fault, always. Then as soon as I try to make it up to her, she gives me the cold shoulder for hours. Completely resistant to affection. Can you share a recent example of "getting blamed" for something? Can you follow that up with examples of how you "tried to make it up to her". I would encourage you to read the article below. I'm curious to hear your thoughts after you read it. What does it take to be in a relationship with a person with BPD (https://www.bpdfamily.com/content/what-does-it-take-be-relationship) Best, FF |