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Children, Parents, or Relatives with BPD => Parent, Sibling, or In-law Suffering from BPD => Topic started by: auroraborealis on January 30, 2021, 07:18:25 PM



Title: first time posting
Post by: auroraborealis on January 30, 2021, 07:18:25 PM
First time posting/on this site. Surprisingly hard to find support for family members of those with BPD / bpd traits
Parent was diagnosed with this a long long time ago, personally I thought it was rubbish but now I’m in my mid twenties and it just makes so much sense. Having a clear reason/realisation doesn’t stop the hurt though.
I did read something helpful today - the three Cs
- I didn’t Cause it
- I can’t Cure it
- I can’t Control it

personally I really struggle with the top two
thanks for reading (not sure how this site works)


Title: Re: first time posting
Post by: formflier on February 02, 2021, 08:43:31 AM

*welcome*

Hey auroraborealis,

I'm glad you took the step of starting to post.  I'm sure we can help you work through your struggles.


personally I really struggle with the top two
 

Can you share more about the struggle?  What does the internal conversation sound like when you read those top two?

Best,

FF