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Title: Hello Post by: gammaxgoblin on February 21, 2021, 10:30:33 AM Hello, my girlfriend/life partner of almost 5 years has her challenges. I work several programs of recovery myself. The frequent intense shift in her mood and emotions are a challenge at times. I find myself feeling anxious and waiting for her next demonstration of anger, sadness, etc. I do my best to focus on myself, do my thing but at times I fixate on her and "im not okay because she is not okay." Its hard at times and confusing.
Title: Re: Hello Post by: formflier on February 22, 2021, 07:48:12 AM *welcome* I'm so glad you have found us. We "get it" and can help you sort through all of this. I want to commend you for the insight you shared below. Can you share your journey of coming to realize this? I do my best to focus on myself, do my thing but at times I fixate on her and "im not okay because she is not okay." Its hard at times and confusing. Please post again soon. I'll be looking out for your reply. Best, FF |