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Children, Parents, or Relatives with BPD => Son, Daughter or Son/Daughter In-law with BPD => Topic started by: SeniorMom on May 16, 2021, 09:57:50 PM



Title: I moved away from adult child
Post by: SeniorMom on May 16, 2021, 09:57:50 PM
5 years ago I left town. Left a narcissistic husband of 34 years and a BPD daughter that was 30yo, single mother of 2 children then 10 and 11.  I have given much emotional and financial support over the years. I still do nothing right. I left because I was not respected by any party there. I live alone now and I am very happy. But I often get rages from daughter about my abandoning her. 

I'm open to any assistance. I have bought and working with the 3 books. I don't need the divorce book. I have no communication with spouse. Thanks


Title: Re: I moved away from adult child
Post by: pursuingJoy on May 17, 2021, 03:27:51 PM
I admire your courage and can imagine the emotional toll all of this has taken. What part of this are you working through now? What can we help with?