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Title: No new topic Post by: maregesimpson on May 23, 2021, 01:20:00 PM Hi everybody,
just want to say hello. I am currently treatet with ongoi g silence and feel very helpless. So have been reading your posts with great interest. Thank you so much for posting und the support. Title: Re: No new topic Post by: Red22 on May 23, 2021, 11:20:01 PM Hi.
I'm new here and am still finding my feet, but I recognise a lot here and perhaps I'm in the right community. That given... I dealt best with the silent treatment by imagining I was living alone. I did the usual as if single and home by myself; read a book, watch a movie, make a sandwich, go for a bike ride. What doesn't work for me is trying to fix the problem - trying to deal directly with the silence issue just enables fights and further complications here. My wife's last long silence was for 6 weeks, and was just the latest of a long line of events in years of doing such. When she broke that silence, I extended it for another month; she didn't do it again barring a single recent event of a day or two. During that 10 weeks, in my own mind, I was a single guy living happily alone in a stress-free environment. |