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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Tired_Dad on June 09, 2021, 07:33:42 PM



Title: A weight is lifted
Post by: Tired_Dad on June 09, 2021, 07:33:42 PM
To all that are struggling there is a light at the end. I was able to break the cycle of conflict and managed to not be ruined by the divorce.

The peace that is in this house, the way my son has the space to be free from the conflict and the possibilities in front of me have made staying true to my values and not letting myself be recycled again and being trapped in the pain completely validated.

All will be final in less than 45 days and there is a great joy in just learning again who I am on my own.


Title: Re: A weight is lifted
Post by: yamada on June 09, 2021, 08:01:02 PM
In fact like all experiences you will have learned lessons particularly about yourself and resilience...Be proud


Title: Re: A weight is lifted
Post by: pursuingJoy on June 10, 2021, 12:31:46 PM
tired_dad we're proud of you. I hope you're proud of yourself. Make sure you keep us posted on how you're doing. Hearing the hope in your story might give life to someone else who is struggling.  :heart: