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Title: support Post by: MysteryAbounds on July 14, 2021, 06:01:04 PM I'm so confused. I am recovering from the typical BPD, may not ever "walk" without an emotional "limp". In continued research (always looking for a better way) I discovered my spouse of 35 years is BPD/NPD. I DO see that he needs love and support but I feel like I am threatening my own recovery in trying to help him see what is going on. I DO NOT want to hurt him or cause further injury; at the same time I wonder exactly how much I am expected to endure in an effort to help another. I am SO tired...any advice would be GREATLY appreciated. I don't doubt his love for me and at the same time I do NOT doubt his hatred for me or his "accounts" of how I deserve whatever injury he deems fit in the moment. :help:
Title: Re: support Post by: once removed on July 14, 2021, 06:14:01 PM *welcome*
theyre confusing circumstances, for sure. can you tell us more about whats going on between you and your spouse; what injury does he think you deserve? we can help. Title: Re: support Post by: Rev on July 14, 2021, 07:31:47 PM Hi there,
Just replying and echoing what Once just said... Maybe two sets of eyes (ears) are better than one. 35 years is a long time to be carrying stuff. Lot's of experience here. Rev |