|
Title: Not sure what to believe Post by: ReskRising on July 29, 2021, 10:07:40 PM When we started to get more serious the fights started happening. It made no sense because they weren't really about anything. This has been going on for 2 years and we both feel crazy. I think she is gaslighting me and she says that I am the one doing it to her. She says I pick fights and says she doesn't know what I'm talking about when I tell her she's manipulative and a liar. Does this disorder make them completely oblivious to their behavior or is it all intentional? If they are unaware how is one to be compationate while not overlooking or
rewarding bad behavior? Title: Re: Not sure what to believe Post by: Goose88 on July 29, 2021, 10:30:28 PM I wonder the same exact things.
Title: Re: Not sure what to believe Post by: once removed on July 29, 2021, 11:55:54 PM one person has to step up to end the conflict. you can learn more about how to do it here: https://bpdfamily.com/content/ending-conflict
welcome, friend. what are you and your loved one fighting about? |