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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: legalboxers on August 12, 2021, 09:10:36 PM



Title: One Year - or so - since my 1st post - ♫ cha..cha..changes...
Post by: legalboxers on August 12, 2021, 09:10:36 PM
 :hi:
So its been about a year or so since my last post. What has changed.
 :check: I dont communicate with them
 red-flag She called me saying her cat died.. I ignored her, like her cat ignored her.
 :check: I am much happier.


Title: Re: One Year - or so - since my 1st post - ♫ cha..cha..changes...
Post by: kells76 on August 13, 2021, 09:36:31 AM
So great to see the "reflecting/looking back" posts on these boards. I couldn't help but  lol at:

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I ignored her, like her cat ignored her.

Wrong? maybe? well... I still  lol ed...

Do you think that you 1 year ago would be surprised at you in the present? Would have believe you would be where you're at? Curious to know.


Title: Re: One Year - or so - since my 1st post - ♫ cha..cha..changes...
Post by: legalboxers on August 13, 2021, 10:27:59 AM
So great to see the "reflecting/looking back" posts on these boards. I couldn't help but  lol at:

Wrong? maybe? well... I still  lol ed...

Do you think that you 1 year ago would be surprised at you in the present? Would have believe you would be where you're at? Curious to know.
I never expected I would be in this position. I never knew she would do this to me. She has 4 cats. 3 cats love me. One cat is a loner. But this cat loved her mom (she died when I 1st met her) He always looks so sad..


Title: Re: One Year - or so - since my 1st post - ♫ cha..cha..changes...
Post by: Cromwell on August 14, 2021, 04:57:04 AM
Hi it sounds like a year gone by has done some good. I know its not been easy so.well done.

Would you say you feel stronger emotionally today than you were 6 months ago?


Title: Re: One Year - or so - since my 1st post - ♫ cha..cha..changes...
Post by: legalboxers on August 14, 2021, 09:58:57 AM
Hi it sounds like a year gone by has done some good. I know its not been easy so.well done.

Would you say you feel stronger emotionally today than you were 6 months ago?

I dont know to be honest. Im on the fence I think. I dont want to sound too positive because it will backfire on me