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Title: Overwhelmed :( Post by: lillylou2 on October 10, 2021, 07:48:48 AM I am unsure if my relationship is good and safe enough to stay. I have BPD and He judges me for it and he is abusive and I am totally shocked as I thought me and him were soul mates but clearly he wants not only my body but to use me.
It's my first post also So I want to introduce myself, I'm 21 and from the United Kingdom. I have a dog called Teddy who I love. Hope to see you around |iiii |iiii :hi: :help: Title: we're over Post by: lillylou2 on October 10, 2021, 07:56:30 AM I didn't want me and him to end but he keeps abusing my personal self. I think scared what attack I would get next and I couldn't live like that anymore.
My actions with my BPD weren't perfect but I would never EVER hurt anyone especially :help: not him as I loved and cared for him as my boyfriend and best friend but I didn't know why he enjoyed hurting me :( Title: Re: Overwhelmed :( Post by: poppy2 on October 10, 2021, 10:02:30 AM Hallo Ellie,
I'm sorry you're going through a hard time. Would you like to be a bit more specific about what exactly is happening? Best wishes poppy Title: Re: Overwhelmed :( Post by: lillylou2 on October 10, 2021, 01:47:33 PM he hurts me. and scares me it's horrible i can't keep pretending to be happy with mine and his relationship
Title: Re: Overwhelmed :( Post by: poppy2 on October 10, 2021, 01:54:13 PM Have you thought about taking a break in order to let things settle down, and figure out if you want to stay or not?
Title: Re: Overwhelmed :( Post by: lillylou2 on October 10, 2021, 03:56:35 PM he is so abusive i cant leave he's saying things
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