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Title: Spouse says “ I’m leaving “. Again
Post by: Sadsally on October 13, 2021, 12:57:26 AM
I’ve been in therapy for my issues. My husband has no interest in therapy and goes from Dr Jekyll to mr hide over the smallest or most innocent things. He said he’s packing a bag. He says it a lot. He mocks me and my emotions freak him out.he finds others to blame for his behavior and he mocks and challenges me.


Title: Re: Spouse says “ I’m leaving “. Again
Post by: formflier on October 13, 2021, 06:29:56 AM

*welcome*

Hey Sadsally,

I'm so sorry you are in this situation, it must be really hard to endure the mocking.  (at least it was for me)

I'm glad you found us and posted.

How long have you had a relationship with a therapist (T is what you will see on these boards)?

Can you describe a recent "incident"?  As much he said she said as you can recall?  That will help us get you pointed in the right direction.

I'll check back later for your reply.

Best,

FF


Title: Re: Spouse says “ I’m leaving “. Again
Post by: mitten on October 13, 2021, 10:15:39 AM
I'm sorry you are going through this and hearing these things.  How does it make you feel when he says he is "leaving" again?  I could imagine a wide spectrum of feelings that could come up.