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I saw my ex the other day in a new car. Today I saw the same, or a very similar car, and a dude was driving it instead and gave me a peace sign, which was really odd.

I may be putting 2 + 2 together and making 5, but I've realized regardless of whether it was her new bf or not, there was value in the message.

I ran through a situation in my mind where I spoke to the guy, and I was thinking of what nice things I could say about my ex.

I sarcastically thought:

• Incredibly dependable
• Highly emotionally intelligent and caring
• Great communicator, especially good at giving advice on sensitive topics
• Lets things roll off her back, goes with the flow
• Stable and consistent, you always know where you stand
• Mature
• A real keeper
• Someone that you'd want raising your children
• A real classy girl

All I thought was "good luck mate". He's probably having the best time of his life right now w/ a strange undercurrent of uncertainty.

I had a second thought which helped too, using the name "Lucy".

• Lucy was Lucy-ing before I moved here.
• Lucy was Lucy-ing when I was with my ex.
• Lucy was Lucy-ing when she told me someone telling her they loved her made her feel sick.
• Lucy was Lucy-ing when I was her favourite person.
• Lucy was Lucy-ing when I no longer meant anything.
• Lucy is Lucy-ing with a new guy.
• Lucy has always been Lucy.
• Lucy will always be Lucy.

Are you sure it was a "peace sign" and not a double bird (with hands crossed?)  :)

Lucy don't know who da hell Lucy is.

Lucy gonna start with her unreasonable demands soon.

Lucy thinks other people need to fix Lucy.

Lucy is a scorpion, the new bf is the naive frog.

Grumpy likes this structure. This structure is fun.

Lucy is not Lucky
Lucy is ludicrous

Lucy is not lucid
Lucy has the lunacy

Lucy can be luminous
Lucy is mostly lugubrious

Lucy likes to lurk
Lucy likes to lure

So don't be a Lummox,
Lucy is lucifer