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Title: Happy Holidays Post by: legalboxers on December 04, 2021, 08:11:40 PM Checking in with my BPD Family :hi: Hope Everyone is okay.
Title: Re: Happy Holidays Post by: khibomsis on December 05, 2021, 01:56:20 AM Happy holidays LB! We are blessed to see another one when so very many didn't. Take care of yourself now, mayit be peacefu and calm :hug: :hug:
Title: Re: Happy Holidays Post by: SinisterComplex on December 05, 2021, 11:37:34 PM Wish both of you good health and good fortune. Happy Holidays...way ahead of time for sure.
Perhaps it is the determined never back down optimist mentality in me, but I hope you both will join me in making sure that you end this year on a high note and do what you can with the time left of this year to make it one worth committing to memory. Cheers and best wishes! |iiii -SC- Title: Re: Happy Holidays Post by: legalboxers on December 06, 2021, 05:26:46 PM Happy holidays LB! We are blessed to see another one when so very many didn't. Take care of yourself now, mayit be peacefu and calm :hug: :hug: praying.. all we can do... Title: Re: Happy Holidays Post by: legalboxers on December 06, 2021, 05:27:21 PM Wish both of you good health and good fortune. Happy Holidays...way ahead of time for sure. Perhaps it is the determined never back down optimist mentality in me, but I hope you both will join me in making sure that you end this year on a high note and do what you can with the time left of this year to make it one worth committing to memory. Cheers and best wishes! |iiii -SC- My birthday is at the end of the week.. so lets see what happens Title: Re: Happy Holidays Post by: khibomsis on December 10, 2021, 08:02:37 PM happy birthday LB ! :wee: :hug: :hug:
Title: Re: Happy Holidays Post by: legalboxers on December 10, 2021, 08:14:48 PM Title: Re: Happy Holidays Post by: brighter future on December 13, 2021, 07:17:41 AM Happy birthday and Happy Holidays, LB! I hope you have a great New Year as well. :)
Title: Re: Happy Holidays Post by: legalboxers on December 13, 2021, 09:00:46 AM Happy birthday and Happy Holidays, LB! I hope you have a great New Year as well. :) TY! Title: Re: Happy Holidays Post by: legalboxers on December 13, 2021, 09:01:18 AM happy birthday LB ! :wee: :hug: :hug: Birthday was semi okay-ish :( Title: Re: Happy Holidays Post by: khibomsis on December 14, 2021, 01:10:23 AM Wonderful to hear that LB! Keep on caring for yourself: eat right, get some exercise. It is incredible what a difference it makes. :hug: :hug:
Title: Re: Happy Holidays Post by: legalboxers on December 14, 2021, 08:28:49 AM Wonderful to hear that LB! Keep on caring for yourself: eat right, get some exercise. It is incredible what a difference it makes. :hug: :hug: if I could I would lol.. feet hurt badTitle: Re: Happy Holidays Post by: khibomsis on December 14, 2021, 11:36:55 AM I am so sorry to hear that, LB! Swimming maybe? What do you do for self care?
:hug: :hug: Title: Re: Happy Holidays Post by: legalboxers on December 14, 2021, 11:38:47 AM I am so sorry to hear that, LB! Swimming maybe? What do you do for self care? nothing to be honest. Maybe I should? *shrugs* Does sleep count?:hug: :hug: Title: Re: Happy Holidays Post by: SinisterComplex on December 14, 2021, 03:04:24 PM nothing to be honest. Maybe I should? *shrugs* Does sleep count? Um yeah it is kind of an important priority and necessity that you take care of YOU LB. Sleep does count as well and is vitally important. More than anything homie...quit worrying about taking care of everyone else and focus on taking care of you. You are a genuine person and truly a diamond in the rough, but you need to take care of YOU amigo. BTW happy belated B-day good sir! :wee: |iiii Glad to hear it was alright. Lastly, what you do is up to you, but hopefully you will take my support and appreciate my direction here...2021 is essentially done. Ok, not much left of this year, but how about you start putting together a strategy to put yourself into position to have a better 2022. Make 2022 a year all about YOU. Yes it will be tough because it is not your nature to be self-centered. However, you deserve peace of mind and you need to focus on making yourself happy for you. Please just give a S :cursing: about YOU and do better for yourself. Cheers and best wishes to you my friend! -SC- Title: Re: Happy Holidays Post by: legalboxers on December 14, 2021, 03:09:07 PM Um yeah it is kind of an important priority and necessity that you take care of YOU LB. Sleep does count as well and is vitally important. More than anything homie...quit worrying about taking care of everyone else and focus on taking care of you. You are a genuine person and truly a diamond in the rough, but you need to take care of YOU amigo. BTW happy belated B-day good sir! :wee: |iiii Glad to hear it was alright. Lastly, what you do is up to you, but hopefully you will take my support and appreciate my direction here...2021 is essentially done. Ok, not much left of this year, but how about you start putting together a strategy to put yourself into position to have a better 2022. Make 2022 a year all about YOU. Yes it will be tough because it is not your nature to be self-centered. However, you deserve peace of mind and you need to focus on making yourself happy for you. Please just give a S :cursing: about YOU and do better for yourself. Cheers and best wishes to you my friend! -SC- I can say.. Im in a better place without that person. No stress. Was hoping she would AT LEAST wish me a happy birthday. and give me my money back which she borrowed. One can hope.. I am getting my health back... slowly..Im not self centered I put everyone before me Title: Re: Happy Holidays Post by: SinisterComplex on December 14, 2021, 04:47:48 PM I can say.. Im in a better place without that person. No stress. Was hoping she would AT LEAST wish me a happy birthday. and give me my money back which she borrowed. One can hope.. I am getting my health back... slowly..Im not self centered I put everyone before me I know you do. It is ok to be self-centered sometimes though. You have to find that balance. You can be self-centered without being selfish. You are selfless to a fault putting everyone before YOU. Hey YOU matter too ok and others need to see that and understand that. You are not just here and there for everyone else to take advantage of. That is the takeaway. Doing something for you and your happiness is ok. This is your life amigo. You can't just live it for everyone else. You have to live it for YOU too. Focus on your health for sure. I wish nothing but the best for you my friend. Cheers, take care, and be well! #bropound |iiii -SC- |