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Title: Setting guidelines for bpd and being disowned Post by: blackwhitecat on December 27, 2021, 10:50:37 PM Hello ,
Sadly , after dealing with my sister with undiagnosed bpd ( there’s nothing wrong with her). I have now been disowned and she hates me ( quotes from her text) She had COVID and her 10 days feel on Dec 24 . She still seemed ill and our Mother is 86 . Good health but still she’s 86 . I asked my sister to take a COVID test just to be sure as she seemed to be telling people she was sick . She disowned me forever, told my mother she hated her , disowned her and she will have nothing to do with the family as I have been trying to get her out of the family and I won . This was not my intention, I just wanted to insure she was still not ill . She has ruined most , if not all holidays but her tantrums or crying due to not getting a specific gift and the list goes on and on . My family says let her go but my mother is pretty heartbroken Title: Re: Setting guidelines for bpd and being disowned Post by: bugwaterguy on December 28, 2021, 06:51:05 AM That sounds awful.
Maybe you and your mom could read Stop Walking On Eggshells together? |