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Title: pwBPD cannot give what they don't have Post by: BigOof on January 13, 2022, 07:20:40 PM From Understanding the Borderline Mother, Christine says in reference to trust and a stable sense of self, BPDs "cannot give what they do not have."
What other qualities does a pwBPD lack you think they have a hard time teaching their children? Title: Re: pwBPD cannot give what they don't have Post by: Turkish on January 13, 2022, 07:43:08 PM This might be am excellent topic for the PSI board to hear from children of pwBPD.
Title: Re: pwBPD cannot give what they don't have Post by: BigOof on January 13, 2022, 07:52:13 PM Thanks, Turkish. I'll repost there.
Title: Re: pwBPD cannot give what they don't have Post by: Couscous on January 13, 2022, 07:56:58 PM They make up for what they don’t have with what they do have: the power to manipulate and control due to extreme maternal separation anxiety. I just learned that there is a term for this: Parental psychological control.
Here are two studies on the negative impact that parental psychological control has on adolescents: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6388244/ https://selfdeterminationtheory.org/SDT/documents/2006_SoenensVansteenkisteDuriezGoossens_JRA.pdf Edited to correct second link. Title: Re: pwBPD cannot give what they don't have Post by: BigOof on January 13, 2022, 08:48:30 PM Couscous, your response is so funny because there's a lot of truth in it.
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