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It's been a while since I've posted here, a few months probably. I haven't visited the group in a while. My exwBPD and I have been broken up since July, so about 6 months. He tried coming back in October and I found out he's also seeing someone else so I blocked him on everything and haven't spoken to him since or unblocked him. I moved to my dream city (New Orleans). I'm working my dream job. I'm teaching at Tulane University, a super prestigious university. I'm making new friends, going out on dates, exploring my new surroundings. I have plans to out with some girl friends tonight. Life is good. No, it's great. Do I miss my exwBPD, especially since we had plans to move here together? Sure. Do I think about him? Of course. But I am no longer trauma bonded to him and it feels amazing. I think of him with more of a nostalgic feeling than anything. I will probably always love him and have a place in my heart for him, but I no longer have any desire to be with him. To go back to the anxiety ridden nights, staying up until 6 in the morning wondering if he was out cheating on me. Walking on eggshells, wondering when the next time he was going to break up with me. The sickening feeling I would get in the pit of my stomach when he would start distancing himself. I say all this to let you know that it DOES get better. You will know when you have had enough. Sending you all love!

Thank you for reaching out and updating Marv. I am very happy to hear you are doing well. You keep on kicking some @$$ and taking some names. LOL ;-) |iiii

This fam here is always here to support you.

Cheers and best wishes!

-SC-