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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: user on February 17, 2022, 12:39:36 PM



Title: any help please
Post by: user on February 17, 2022, 12:39:36 PM
it's like hell
i can't do anything in my life since he o break up with me
he has bpd and couldnt hold in the relationship because of his disorder.
he tried to tell me indirectly that he cant be in a relationship that's make him feels pressure, unstable feelings, fear of abandonment etc and he couldn't take it anymore.
he told me that the relationship with him is toxic I'm doing a favor for you, because after year you will tired from me and you will leave me.
but the one who left is him not me

he doesnt know that i know about his disorder.
please help what I should do, I feel bad, loneliest, lost I just want him back

 thanks for reading.


Title: Re: any help please
Post by: Cat Familiar on February 18, 2022, 10:43:50 AM
I’m sorry you are suffering the loss of your relationship. It’s very difficult to be involved with someone with BPD. Are you still in contact with him?


Title: Re: any help please
Post by: user on February 21, 2022, 07:35:11 AM
I’m sorry you are suffering the loss of your relationship. It’s very difficult to be involved with someone with BPD. Are you still in contact with him?

well I was, but the last meeting was terrible and its been 30 no contact I didn't send anything