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Title: Less than 3 weeks after the replacement she calls me from jail Post by: NotAHero on March 09, 2022, 12:34:10 PM After a 5 year relationship and a child she proceeded to discarding me to mirror and idolize a new guy. She got arrested 3 weeks after, new guy no where to be found, she doesn’t call her parents or family but me from jail.
How much of a door mat does she think of me to think I’m still hers or that I would still be there ? I’m more offended than validated. It’s not a good feeling. Title: Re: Less than 3 weeks after the replacement she calls me from jail Post by: So many questions on March 09, 2022, 02:11:24 PM God I’m so scared of this moment. Not even if she is in jail. Just when things go wrong with the replacement I don’t know what she will do. I’m at 3 weeks but they seem great.
What did she even say? She knows I’m weak. That I was always willing to take her back if she said the right things. She knows I’m devastated. She knows she has control of my emotions. She knows I carpeted blame for us ending and would do anything to reconcile. I hope they last long enough to break her hold on me. So when the time comes and she reaches out, I can ignore it. I’m not there. If she reached out I would foolishly answer. The hold she has on me isn’t fair. Title: Re: Less than 3 weeks after the replacement she calls me from jail Post by: NotAHero on March 09, 2022, 02:39:12 PM God I’m so scared of this moment. Not even if she is in jail. Just when things go wrong with the replacement I don’t know what she will do. I’m at 3 weeks but they seem great. What did she even say? She knows I’m weak. That I was always willing to take her back if she said the right things. She knows I’m devastated. She knows she has control of my emotions. She knows I carpeted blame for us ending and would do anything to reconcile. I hope they last long enough to break her hold on me. So when the time comes and she reaches out, I can ignore it. I’m not there. If she reached out I would foolishly answer. The hold she has on me isn’t fair. Oh I missed all the calls. Eventually if I answer I’ll tell her that this situation you are in is something for you and your new man to figure out. I’ll never ever, ever take her back not even as a friend. Title: Re: Less than 3 weeks after the replacement she calls me from jail Post by: So many questions on March 09, 2022, 06:50:33 PM How does she respond to that?
Title: Re: Less than 3 weeks after the replacement she calls me from jail Post by: NotAHero on March 10, 2022, 06:17:25 PM How does she respond to that? “I’m single “ is what she said. That’s after she had him meet the kids and introduced him to everyone a week prior. That’s BPD for ya. Nothing is real. |