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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Anonym2806 on March 09, 2022, 03:44:37 PM



Title: She got married within 6 months
Post by: Anonym2806 on March 09, 2022, 03:44:37 PM
it’s been so quick.
2 years with me serving her PLEASE READ (https://bpdfamily.com/safe-site.htm) then she met this guy, and they got married within 6 months.
Showing off how much she’s happy.

I don’t understand how she made it with him.
Im still pissed off and sometimes I think about her.
I’m no contact for 8 months now.


Title: Re: She got married within 6 months
Post by: Mutt on March 09, 2022, 07:23:24 PM
Hey Anonymous2086,

Im sorry to hear the news. It takes time for o not have our pwBPD on our minds.  Good for continuing with sticking to your boundaries



Title: Re: She got married within 6 months
Post by: So many questions on March 10, 2022, 12:47:12 PM
Well the bright side, you don’t have to go through a messy divorce like she probably will. If she’s BPD and not healed, there really isn’t much hope. And you don’t have to be that poor husband whose really just a doormat.

Maybe they love each other. Maybe he can take more. Maybe she’s happy she found that. Good for them.

If you’re relationship was anything like mine, you dodged a nuclear bomb. 

I know your pain. Mine moved on quick. I don’t exist. It’s been 3 weeks. But honestly, I’m starting to feel myself care less and less.


Title: Re: She got married within 6 months
Post by: SinisterComplex on March 10, 2022, 02:02:36 PM
it’s been so quick.
2 years with me serving her PLEASE READ (https://bpdfamily.com/safe-site.htm) then she met this guy, and they got married within 6 months.
Showing off how much she’s happy.

I don’t understand how she made it with him.
Im still pissed off and sometimes I think about her.
I’m no contact for 8 months now.

Hey the anger and hurt is valid for sure. We all get it here. All I will offer up...appreciate that you are free and not tied down to an inevitable clusterF :cursing: and bitter end. You got a new lease on life...use it wisely to better yourself.

Cheers and best wishes!

-SC-