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Does this happen to anyone else? My pwbpd is coming off a split. We have only seen each other two times in the last three weeks because he needed “space.” We finally made it to the other side and talked all week and planned a whole weekend together. I just got a text, and it said he wasn’t feeling well and was canceling. I told him I was ok with just coming over to sit with him, and he said that I promised to give him space when he asked for it. I said you’re right, but you’ve had space the last two weeks. I miss you and was looking forward to this weekend. He told me I have no empathy, and that’s his decision. We went from seeing each other 4x a week to this. I don’t think he’s cheating, but doesn’t he even consider how I feel when plans are constantly broken? He’s been texting every few hours to say he loves me but that’s about it
I asked to see him and he said no. I asked if he needed anything and he said “I’m fine”
What’s going on?

Hi and welcome :hi: It's hard to say. Maybe he isn't feeling well or needs time to process his emotions.

This article (https://bpdfamily.com/content/what-does-it-take-be-relationship) could help. Try respecting his decision and let him know you're there if he wants to reach out. Take some time to yourself and enjoy the week.