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Title: Older but wiser now Post by: Olderbutwiser on April 28, 2022, 07:28:06 AM Hello people,
I was on OZ years ago, where did it go? This was incredibly helpful back then during divorce with child in a whirlwind that only people like you understand. Well fast forward over 10 years, the "kid" is now an adult and after toiling for years about if or what to tell them, the moment presented itself so I did. It went amazing! "Kiddo" had no idea, we both cried and was so incredibly grateful that I shared this. I made it clear how much i loved and still do but it's impossible to be in a relationship let alone marriage with bpd. It's a horribly sad thing. I feel very good about this and kiddo obviously does too. They will have more questions as time goes on and that door is now open to the truth. I think that's healthy for both of us. Unlike many partners I am fiercely protective and mindful that while mine has done innumerable hurtful things, they did not ask for this and in classic bpd style they have no insight into the sabotage they do. So it's come full circle for me finally. I wanted to revisit the old Oz posts but where did they go? Grateful. Title: Re: Older but wiser now Post by: Sancho on May 03, 2022, 02:13:30 AM Hi Olderbutwiser
Have read your post a couple of times but not sure what 'OZ' is/was? Can you clarify? YOur post is really interesting in the journey you have have had. Title: Re: Older but wiser now Post by: Olderbutwiser on May 05, 2022, 02:00:29 AM Welcome to Oz was a large community board run by Randi Kreger for years.
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