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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: So many questions on March 23, 2022, 07:41:28 PM



Title: Any experiences from those who had second chance?
Post by: So many questions on March 23, 2022, 07:41:28 PM
I want to open a discussion like this up. I think a lot of us are on our first true separation, and  have fantasies of rekindling. We know it’s over, we know we can’t ever go back, but the addict mindset takes over at times.

I think it would be helpful to hear experiences from those who went back a second time or has a second chance. That will never be an option in my situation. I’ve heard the usual “it only gets worse and ends worse”. But it will help to sort of kill the hope that lingers.

But how so? I’d like to hear some stories.