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Title: Splitting episode & breakup Post by: Birdmam on June 19, 2022, 03:29:53 PM Hello,
This is my first post. After a 26yr long marriage to a wife who has a verifiable diagnosis of cptsd and also shows signs of crossover BPD, I am apprx 8 weeks out from her having a splitting episode and leaving. After several sessions with our old therapist, a lot of reading, studying,etc. I look back now and can see some of the classic red flags & triggers. Thought things were turning around a bit after her reaching out via text but seems she was only fishing for info regarding business leading to a request for her stuff. I agreed to send rather than have her pickup as before she left she'd stolen money and tried to leave a vicious rumor regarding my behavior at my business. I stated I'd be happy to send her stuff cause I certainly didn't want to be with anyone who wasn't sure they wanted to be with me. The response was a repeat of everything she'd said the day she left. My inability to show her I loved her, hold her, etc along with the accusations regarding my questionalbe behavior. Title: Re: Splitting episode & breakup Post by: Cat Familiar on June 21, 2022, 10:49:07 AM I’m very sorry you are dealing with these difficulties after such a long marriage. Do you hope to repair things or are you feeling like this is an ending?
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