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There is so much that has happened, there is so much back story about it but I will try to start. We were domestic partners and she started a relationship with someone that we worked with, we work for the same company.  She moved us away, not by force but by manipulation and started a relationship with another guy behind my back. So I move with her to her hometown while she had been cheating on me.  While we were moving she was telling me how much she loved me and how we could have a new start. The new start never came, she would go back to our old city to see this guy and say she was seeing her friends and then started seeing her ex boyfriend as well. When I found out she said she would change and stop because she loves me, she never did and it just kept getting worse while blaming me for her behavior.

Hi Jay and welcome! This sounds like a tough situation. Do you want to provide more details? It would be good if we knew more about the relationship and what preceded/accompanied those problems.