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Title: BPD is like owning a Ferrari Post by: Travinator on July 27, 2022, 11:23:27 AM A therapist told me years ago that being married to my wife was like owning a Ferrari. Youve seen the guy driving down the road everyone looking at "that Guy" who owns a Ferrari. He asked me if I knew what it was like to own a Ferrari? I in fact did...one of my friends owned one (an older Magnum P.I.) and he took it in for an oil change and it cost him 15K. High Maintenance costs, frequent breakdowns.
The BPD realtionship can be so great. Intense, you are the greatest guy in the world. Next thing you know your stranded on the side of the road, steam coming out from under the hood. A guy who owns a Ferrari, I can imagine, walks into his garage puts his hands on his hips and asks "Whats it gonna be today?" could be nothing or 3 months in the shop. I have had to adjust my attitude in this relationship as owning a Ferrari. |