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Children, Parents, or Relatives with BPD => Son, Daughter or Son/Daughter In-law with BPD => Topic started by: Julsie on September 13, 2022, 04:56:58 AM



Title: Ally
Post by: Julsie on September 13, 2022, 04:56:58 AM
Has anyone found that their child will disregard you totally when they have someone they see as an ally? Especially a replacement mother figure? It's so hurtful. I guess that's why he does it


Title: Re: Ally
Post by: Sancho on September 19, 2022, 11:51:15 PM
Hi Julsie
Yes this is spot on. I think it is more about having the attention of someone else rather than deliberately trying to hurt. I now enjoy the respite when  someone else is the focus and I can have some space to myself.