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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: Protectourfamily on June 13, 2023, 03:59:32 AM



Title: Need to report BPDh's abuse BUT he is threatening to falsify claims against me
Post by: Protectourfamily on June 13, 2023, 03:59:32 AM
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I have tried setting boundaries in many ways, with therapists, etc. for years with BPDh's abuse.
(We have six kids.)
It has helped to a certain extent, but recently, he relapsed into his old abusive behavior.
I need to report him to child services, but he threatens to report me in return.
I do not abuse him or the children, obviously, but he has managed to convince some of my family members and some of the kids' therapists/teachers that my behavior is dysfunctional, and I am afraid the truth will be obscured with his charm, exaggerations, and aggressive lying.
What do I do?