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Title: Hello. New to this site. Post by: Peaceandlove8 on December 07, 2023, 10:27:37 AM Hello- I am in a family of all BPD's. I have been in therapy for 20 years trying to cope and deal with this family. I feel best when I am no contact. Somehow they keep coming back into my life. I am finally ready to not feel horrible all the time. I know I need to reach out more and see that I am not alone. I finally see it all clearly. No amount of love or understanding or forgiveness helps them. I basically have to be an observer and live my own life and give up the dream that any of them will ever be different. I will never understand people who hurt other people and never take responsibility, feel remorse, apologize, and then do better. I will stop tryin to understand. Sometimes you can't understand things and have to accept them. Hugs to all of you that deal with BPD in your life.
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