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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Winterberry on May 05, 2024, 10:38:38 AM



Title: Threats of leaving?
Post by: Winterberry on May 05, 2024, 10:38:38 AM
Just a quick post, what should you do/say when a pwBPD threatens to leave? Just in case it happens again in future so I’m prepared. Should you try to convince them not to?


Title: Re: Threats of leaving?
Post by: hellosun on May 06, 2024, 06:46:42 PM
My uBPDh used to do this not infrequently. Calling his bluff put a stop to it: “I support you taking whatever space you need right now,” etc.