Title: slightly hopeful Post by: BPDstinks on May 30, 2024, 06:02:05 AM well...it was only 3 words, however, my BPD daughter texted "I appreciate you" (because I mailed her very important mail) I will take the WIN (typically, i would have texted, i miss you, i love you, call me....however, i waited a couple of minutes & said "happy to help (I did add, I am proud of you, because I have heard from some friends she is very successful at her new job
Title: Re: slightly hopeful Post by: CC43 on May 30, 2024, 08:13:01 AM Big win for both of you. Being grateful and courteous are essential for healing.
Title: Re: slightly hopeful Post by: BPDstinks on May 30, 2024, 08:44:03 AM thank you! I admit, I am not the most patient person & i am "boisterous" (as in, if you say, I need to go to the store, I say, "when", so...i am making a genuine effort to be patient & let her come around (?)
Title: Re: slightly hopeful Post by: BPDstinks on May 30, 2024, 09:55:10 AM ...I also got to thinking about changes I made the year (so far) we have been apart
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