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So a couple months ago my fiance came to me out of the blue and said she wanted to end the engagement. She was at the time five and a half months pregnant with my daughter and now she is just over seven months pregnant. I was living with her in her house and she wanted me to leave right away. I was very confused and later found out that she was coordinating everything with her ex fiance and now they are already married. She is moving to Memphis in the next week or two and trying to make him the legal father and shut me out.

I met her in November of 2023 and she was the most amazing, upbeat, kind, smart and beautiful person I’d ever met. I met her on a Christian dating app and she proclaimed to be very religious and her Bible has writing on almost every page. She love bombed me like I have never seen before. She wanted me to move in after a month and was saying I love you within a couple weeks. She was also wanting to go to the courthouse and get married after just one month. We got engaged on February 10th, just a few months in. We really didn’t fight but I could feel her pulling away a bit in the last couple months of our relationship. In the beginning the intimacy was inane and all the time and then it dropped off shortly after she got pregnant. She told me it was the baby stealing her libido and I believed her. She has a very addictive personality and is a thrill secure. She did some drugs when she was younger and was very open about all of her past transgressions. She had a marriage of ten years and when that ended she got engaged within eight weeks, then she ended that engagement and got engaged to another man (her now husband) within six weeks. She met me shortly after she ended the engagement with her now husband and then left me for him. Since the breakup she has been telling her friends and family that I’m a terrible degenerate gambler and that I ran away/moved out and she couldn’t get a hold of me, all blatant lies. She has blocked me and the rest of my family in an attempt to shut us out of my daughter’s life.

Anyways, this is the hardest thing I’ve ever had to go through and it has left me depressed and seeking answers. Do you think she fits the mold for borderline personality disorder? I’m trying to make sense of everything