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Title: Feelilng lonely and broken again
Post by: Broken again on August 19, 2024, 06:27:36 PM
    My therapist suggested logging on since I am feeling alone and very sad.  My husband left me broken and alone 5 months ago.  I don't know how to move forward.  I wished he didn't have a gambling problem.


Title: Feelilng lonely and broken again
Post by: Broken again on August 19, 2024, 06:33:31 PM
   This is my second marriage failure, that I was walking on eggshells but I did not want him to leave.  Nearing retirement age, and scared to start over.  I am ambarrassed and feel very lonely in this big home.  I am going out with friends, family and trying to do the right things to feel better.  I am scared.


Title: Re: Feelilng lonely and broken again
Post by: Mutt on August 25, 2024, 11:37:30 AM
Hi Broken again,

I’m sorry to hear that you’re going through a difficult time. Even though the late stages of a r/s with a pwBPD are incredibly chaotic it still fills a void.

I hear from you that he engages in risky behaviours. Is your H diagnosed with BPD? How long were you together? Is this your first separation with your second H?