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Just stumbled upon the mugshot photo of my stbxBPDw when she got arrested for Domestic Battery (ironic much? And it was against her friend, not me.) She's the only one on the page SMILING at the picture, and she's dressed up in that orange prison suit. That is the best she has ever looked, if you ask me, dressed up in prison wear.

Makes me wonder why no one's called the cops on her mother and got her arrested for how much she threatens to call the cops on people. Amazingly enough, she doesn't call the cops, I don't call the cops, but when the ex finally blows her top because Seth wants us to help clean the house (Though he never did anything himself, I was just going to say help him and be done with it), HE calls the cops and she gets arrested.

I was outside, so I wasn't sure what happened exactly, but I heard noises and shouts, and when I went, they both had their hands on each other. I had to pull her off of him, because she was the one striking. She ran, and when the cops found her, acted like she was homeles, and when finally offered a chance to speak to me, she cusses out Seth and they drive off. Damn.  Ironically enough, when her mom called the cops on me for no reason (and no arrest was made because she was off her rocker), I told my ex if the cops were called again, I was leaving her. Who would have thought months later the cops weren't called on me but her and by her friend, I'm gone a week and a half later.


Now I'm singing along to Eminem's 25 to Life, because it perfectly describes how I felt about that relationship. Prison suits her, in my opionion. Both she and her mother, prison or at least the mental ward (which coincedentally enough, the mother was in the mental; ward at the same time my ex went to jail)

King... .that alone is enough to want to steer clear of her... .

Get away from these people or you'll become one of them.

My thoughts exactly, which is why I've been NC with hre for the past three months. Still waiting to be able to file for divorce, but till then, living each day gradually.  But damn, definitely good idea to steer clear of those people

The absolute best thing that could possibly happen to me would be if her looks went downhill... .dramatically... .but, that's not going to happen... .she's getting breast implants nexst year... .the guys will be salivating even more than before... .

Mine HAS the implants and is going for other procedures... yep... .the guys will drool... good for them. What til they get the the full kit and kaboddle. Mine too was arrested several times before me and I didn't even KNOW, heard about it via her family and she is 49. Prison for a year via ex bf Dr. when she forged perscriptions and then stole and maxed all his credit cards. He said, "That's it. Done" and off she went for a year... then other DV issues where she was arrested several times.

BAD company.

Yikes  Well implants is the one thing mine DOESN"T need. She's already a double D  I would be scared if she got implants. XD

Mine has breast implants too.  I see a trend here.  The boob job slalom for the BPD winter Olympics.  

Haha yeah. At least my ex had them naturally    Gotta say I think that was part of the alluring part of her    Sometimes I think if I never had sex with her in the first place and didn't get so attached to her, then I probably would have left her a long time before I finally did

Folks; I Thank God for this site every time I hear stories like these being shared. Knowledge is power!  

Wow- reading this is too funny... .here i am looking at it from the female side... .I guess whether male or female they definitely know how to "hook" us lol. When I met my bf he literally swept me off my feet, carried me off to the bedroom and spent the next hour kissing me. Omg, I told my girlfriends, this guy is every women's dream lol.

There were definitely red flags (drinking, gambling) but I was so smitten I just turned a blind eye. It was fairytale... .

I keep thinking he needs to hook up with a BPD woman... .kinda like one of the girls I hear you guys describing! I do wonder if they ever find each other?

Ha... .my BPDw swears the guy she cheated on me with was BPD... .and of course, she thinks I am too.

But in actuality... .I doubt two pwBPD's would last long... .the selfishness, self-centeredness and neediness would not be able to fit in the same room.

No... .pwBPD's do best with people like us... .co-dependents that have the urge to fix and repair.  They thrive on that... .

That my friend is where, oddly, you are wrong. I have seen for myself that my ex and her mother are attached by the umbilical cord. My ex is like a nonBP when it comes to her relationship with her mother, she will never leave that woman to save her own life, LITERALLY. I had offered escape after escape, never happened.  Her mother can't seem to be away from her daughter either. So they'll attack each other, make up, attack each other, pretend nothing happened, attack each other, you get my point.

In doing a bunch of reading I believe a BPD and a BPD would never work. I read a story on a therapists page that him and his profession... .along with judges and  divorce lawyers are seeing an increase in NPD/BPD relationships. That one seems to work... .in a very dysfunctinal way... .but it seems to work. They wind up getting trapped in an endless cycle... .often winding up back in divorce court time and time again. LOL. I wish I kept the link... .I can't find it now.

Oh yeah, a BPD against a BPD in a romantic relationship   Doesn't sound like it would be any good at all. A parent and a child must be a totally different thing.