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Title: Self-Esteem: A Proven Program of Cognitive Techniques... - McKay M., Fanning P. Post by: BPDFamily on September 01, 2012, 09:19:15 AM
Book Description "Self esteem is essential for psychological survival." With these words McKay starts laying out a simple and consistent framework. Working from the basics of understanding self esteem, linking it to self talk and explaining how the inner critic can be disarmed. Developing compassion for yourself and linking it to dealing with mistakes and criticism are next. Setting goals, planning to get there without defeating yourself and asking for what you want conclude the process. A chapter on core believes helps to develop an overall perspective. The book balances cognitive behavioral background, realistic examples and even more important includes exercises leading step-by-step in the direction of (re-)building self esteem. In it's third edition where McKay was joined by Patrick Fanning as co-author this self help book is highly readable. The Authors Matthew McKay, PhD, is a professor at the Wright Institute in Berkeley, CA. He has authored and coauthored numerous books, including The Relaxation and Stress Reduction Workbook, Self-Esteem, Thoughts and Feelings, When Anger Hurts, and ACT on Life Not on Anger. His books combined have sold more than 2.5 million copies. McKay received his PhD in clinical psychology from the California School of Professional Psychology. In private practice, he specializes in the cognitive behavioral treatment of anxiety and depression. Patrick Fanning is a professional writer in the mental health field and the founder of a men's support group in northern California. He has authored and coauthored eight self-help books, including Self-Esteem, Thoughts and Feelings, Couple Skills, and Mind and Emotions. Title: Re: Self-Esteem: A Proven Program of Cognitive Techniques... - McKay M., Fanning P. Post by: HappyNihilist on February 15, 2015, 10:48:21 PM I highly recommend this book to anyone -- even people who don't have low self-esteem can benefit from these techniques. I think it's an especially important read for people who struggle with depression and/or anxiety.
This is one of my personal "life-changing" books. I cried a ton while working through it, which in my world means it's doing its intended job. The techniques and questions really helped me drill down into myself and identify the roots of my self-esteem issues - and helped me develop my own unique strategy for addressing them. Working through the book was long and draining, but also uplifting and enlightening. I love the tone of the authors, as well. McKay and Fanning are completely non-judgmental, accepting, and down-to-earth. They also have a gift for expressing complex, difficult subjects in a clear, simple and elegant manner. Title: Re: Self-Esteem: A Proven Program of Cognitive Techniques... - McKay M., Fanning P. Post by: Maternus on March 19, 2015, 04:24:04 PM I bought it today (the German translation). At first glance it looks very promising, especially the chapter about the inner critic - my greatest enemy. Seems like it'll take some time to work through it, but it looks like a good roadmap for the journey I'm on.
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