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Title: I still have a hard time getting over reminders Post by: SarahinMA on January 09, 2013, 02:49:25 PM Restaurants we used to go to, etc. I suppose because things were SO good until the very end when he devalued and discarded me. My friends keep saying that I went to these places before we dated so why shouldn't I go now. It hurts though. I remember sharing memories with him. I was the happiest I'd ever been. Now, realizing that it was just a facade on his part... . I don't know. I feel like this whole experience ripped a chunk out of my soul. Last year I went from the highest high to the lowest low I've ever felt in my life. I hope one day I can venture to these places again and make new memories with someone who loves me for me.
Title: Re: I still have a hard time getting over reminders Post by: HarmKrakow on January 09, 2013, 03:55:28 PM Restaurants we used to go to, etc. I suppose because things were SO good until the very end when he devalued and discarded me. My friends keep saying that I went to these places before we dated so why shouldn't I go now. It hurts though. I remember sharing memories with him. I was the happiest I'd ever been. Now, realizing that it was just a facade on his part... . I don't know. I feel like this whole experience ripped a chunk out of my soul. Last year I went from the highest high to the lowest low I've ever felt in my life. I hope one day I can venture to these places again and make new memories with someone who loves me for me. I share the exact same. Places which I once LOVED, I now not just dread, i just don't go there anymore. For example, my bedroom? I changed the ENTIRE decoration of my bedroom. Just not to be reminded. I eat different food, I wear different clothing. Everything different ... and all that for a better recovery. In the beginning I did go to these places, why? No idea ... it hurted like hell though and i drowned in self-pity... that does not bring you anywhere. I avoid places like that at all costs. |