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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: toliveistofly on February 08, 2013, 12:14:54 PM



Title: Your name tattooed?
Post by: toliveistofly on February 08, 2013, 12:14:54 PM
I was reading a different post and noticed that a lot of people chimed in about their BPDex getting your name tattooed on themselves. I am curious how many others had this happen... .  

Mine asked me to go the grocery store with her one evening and I said no, I had to work. She left angrily and then called/texted and told me it was over and she was leaving me. Next thing I know she is about 100 miles away in another city and texts me a picture of my initials tattooed on a private location on her body. She showed up two days later and was furious that I wouldn't attend a "love and respect" seminar she had signed us up for at a local church!

This must be an abandonment thing, right? Make it harder to leave? She def wanted me to reciprocate and get her name tattooed.



Title: Re: Your name tattooed?
Post by: clashreality on February 08, 2013, 01:19:57 PM
my ex wanted to get matching tattoos and just 4 weeks ago revealed a plan they had to get an entire poem i'd written tattooed on them - right on their forearm. i thought both ideas were terrible and just brushed them off... glad the second didn't happen!