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Title: "In a Relationship... " Already? Post by: MakeItHappen on April 02, 2013, 08:33:55 AM It's been a while since I posted. Felt compelled to today.
My ex BPD (w/NPD traits), that never posted a single thing about our relationship has just posted that she's "in a relationship" with the new love in her life. I can't help but laugh out loud about it. My next thought is, I hope it fails. Don't really like thinking those thoughts because it's not that nice. But then again, was she ever nice to me? It stings a bit and I know I'll get over it. Can't help but think it's been posted like that to pull at my heart stings... . Anyone have some thoughts on this? Thanks. Title: Re: "In a Relationship... " Already? Post by: blecker on April 02, 2013, 09:28:33 AM My next thought is, I hope it fails. You don't have to hope. She will suffer the same fate as you if she is lucky. There are worse fates than breakups with borderlines. I know it hurts but at some time during your journey the hurt will turn to gratitude to be free of such a sick and twisted personality. Title: Re: "In a Relationship... " Already? Post by: MakeItHappen on April 02, 2013, 09:42:00 AM Now I'm getting angry and sad.
I wish I could let it all go and not care. Title: Re: "In a Relationship... " Already? Post by: fakename on April 02, 2013, 09:48:05 AM my ex tried dating right away we broke up... . one guy didnt want anything to do with her cause she needed 24/7 attention,
the other guy dumped her after 3 weeks... . dont worry, the relationship will fail. but i know it stings Title: Re: "In a Relationship... " Already? Post by: wanttoknowmore on April 02, 2013, 09:58:33 AM That action pretty much confirms she has BPD. History will repeat... . the new victim will be painted black after a few months and will be discarded like toilet paper. Enjoy the drama... . Laugh and wait for the excitement when he is painted black and he will be licking his wounds... . poor guy... . I feel for him... . he just doesnot know he is drinking sweet poison just like we did.
Title: Re: "In a Relationship... " Already? Post by: MakeItHappen on April 02, 2013, 01:10:23 PM That action pretty much confirms she has BPD. History will repeat... . the new victim will be painted black after a few months and will be discarded like toilet paper. Enjoy the drama... . Laugh and wait for the excitement when he is painted black and he will be licking his wounds... . poor guy... . I feel for him... . he just doesnot know he is drinking sweet poison just like we did. Sweet poison is indeed what it was. Title: Re: "In a Relationship... " Already? Post by: mango_flower on April 02, 2013, 07:36:54 PM So many of us here have had that same thing happen! We should start a club... .
The emotions are confusing aren't they? You're devastatingly sad, but also angry, hurt, your self esteem takes a battering, you start wondering if she ever really loved you... . One quote that helped me is "The best predictor of the future is the past" Distract yourself - stay busy - spend time with friends. x |