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Title: leaving my BPDh Post by: lizzard on April 25, 2013, 06:43:47 PM I am done. my BPDh has no respect for me. we have two young children and he has been suspended from work since March for failing a drug test. he is a doctor and I am a teacher. it's difficult for me to plan finances without knowing child support. I also think he will have to leave the state to get a job so I feel the kids and I should be able to stay in the house. he will fight me on it. Should I just find a rental I can afford on my own, wait to see where he gets a job or ? I have no hope nor desire for reconciliation but I have so many doubts.
Title: Re: leaving my BPDh Post by: Clearmind on April 25, 2013, 11:03:06 PM Lizzard I am sorry to hear this - its best to breathe and plan this thoroughly.
Leaving a Partner with Borderline Personality Disorder (https://bpdfamily.com/pdfs/carver.pdf) How are you going? Title: Re: leaving my BPDh Post by: momtara on April 26, 2013, 01:56:20 PM Sorry to hear it. I'm leaving my husband but I keep having doubts.
You shouldn't have to leave the house. In fact, that may look bad during a divorce. You might think about talking to a lawyer. Many of them offer free consultations. Try the internet and talk to a few. Good luck! |