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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Tired68 on June 26, 2013, 02:39:27 PM



Title: she left haven't spoken to her after I busted her.
Post by: Tired68 on June 26, 2013, 02:39:27 PM
so it has been since june 7th and still nothing from her. I busted her and she took a few things with her and left, she still works here in chicago but stays with a mutual friend when she does work and then goes back to her home town on her days off(wisconsin) it floors me that we got married last year, been together for 7 and purchased this house less then a year ago and she has neglected to pay half the mortgage(her name is on everything, mortgage, bills etc.) I gave up my townhouse which is now short sale and pre forclose and my credit is diving down. she just dont give a crap... . this floors me, we have 4 dogs, which is why we left the townhouse in the first place(2 dog min) i dont know what to do where to go. I too have not called her or emailed or text. She cheated on me 3 years ago and I forgave her after much crying and begging on her part. I should have learned then! so june 7th i busted her again . i was suppose to go to her sisters wedding and she started a fight with me so I didn't go , then I found pictures of the wedding and there he was the same guy she had the affair on me with... . my heart sank to my stomach... . AGAIN i said! she could not say a word. everyone is denying they are together, but she looked pretty cosy in the pics withhim, dancing, hugging etc. I am such a fool, and was fooled by her words. she was even calling me from the wedding saying how much she loved me. even after the wedding still making plans to do thing like nothing. wow what a liar and master manipulator... . all her stuff is still here, its going into july and no word about the mortgage.  ADVICE?