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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: drv3006 on October 28, 2013, 10:00:57 AM



Title: When will the occasional mean text stop
Post by: drv3006 on October 28, 2013, 10:00:57 AM
I got a text yesterday morning saying

The group Cake's song reminds me if of you "You're Never There".

Saturday I got text that said, why are you monitoring your blood sugar for diabetes to avoid getting it when you smoke.  you can control your smoking by quitting.

really, I mean I just want him to stop.

When I block the text or block his number and then unblock and block.  I feel like I am him in the push and pull.  So this time I tried the not blocking and just not responding. 

First I told him I would always block if he said mean things to me and if he didn't I would not block.   His mom is dying and I feel like I should be there.  But she is actually doing well and he knew she was dying for a while.  I don't know, it makes it worse for me for some reason.